A Coming to Terms.

'The cruelest longing

is for those

who are still with us.'

Dom Helder Camara A Thousand Reasons for Living

Does that catch in your throat too?

Then, in my experience, you reach a point where you have to face the truth.

Look at it logically not emotionally -- others were involved.

It's a genuine mourning.

Did I say it was painful?

It's a legitimate death.

jsg/jan 19